The two agreed that Schelske be allowed visitation rights with their three children, and that he would find another residence outside of the family home in Franklin, Tenn., near Nashville. They also vowed to split evenly the more than $270,000 that Schelske removed from a joint account. Sara and her husband remain at odds over her claims that he committed adultery, verbally and emotionally abused her and viewed pornography in the family home.